Monday, November 2, 2009

POTTY TRAINING

Yes, I have decided to do it.
He is just barely turned 2 and I have had this philosophy that you wait till they're older and then its an easier switch.
Well, he is ready.
He has been for a while now
but I wasn't ready,
(I believe the success of your child's potty training depends ALOT on the parent and how hard and consistant they are with the child)
NOW I am ready.
We are going on 2 days now and only one "wet" accident.

I go cold turkey.
No diapers, no pull-ups, JUST UNDIES.
Even at night.
He has stayed dry through naps and through the night so far
so wish us luck that he keeps doing so well!

He looks so cute in his little boxer-briefs, I just had to take a picture.
Bye-Bye diapers!



This is what I do:
NO DIAPERS
NO PULL-UPS
These two things only confuse the child. They are pretty much the exact same thing and feel pretty much the exact same way to a child. There's not really any difference between the two.

People try and say they only use them at night....what is that teaching a child? It teaches them that they can pee and poo freely at night but they must use the toilet during the day. What happens when you decide to stop using the diapers at night?

Same thing with using diapers or pull-ups when you are "running errands"....they learn that they don't have to control their bladder or bowel movements when they are out and about.
I think it is confusing for the kids and therefore interrupts their success.

Simplicity and consistancy is the key.

It's easier for me to keep my little guy in undies and a T-shirt all day.

BIG BIG KEY- take them to the potty EVERY 40-45 minutes.
No Matter what.
Don't ask them, most of the time they will say no.
Just take them and put them on the potty.
Take them before you get in the car to go somewhere,
Take them as soon as you arrive (even at the grocery store)
If you are leaving and you have been there for a while...take them again.
Don't ask them, just do it.
Especially if they just ate food or had a drink.

Then stop drinks about 2-3 hours before bedtime.
This can be really difficult.
My trick is I give him water in a cup instead of a sippy cup and I only pour in a tiny tiny amount. Then I also load him full of water in the morning and after his nap to make sure he is getting enough fluids.

Put them to bed.
Remind them that they are in undies and they need to go in the toilet.
They may not get it yet, but they will soon enough.
First few nights might be hit and miss as far as a wet bed or not.
change the sheets.
It might be a pain but they figure it out really soon if you stay consistant.

Bathroom right before naps and as soon as they wake up.
Bathroom right before bed and as soon as they get up in the morning.

It sounds like alot of work and it is. BUT it is atmost 2-3 weeks and you are done! They catch on so fast. It is so worth it to put in the work and then you BOTH see results.

PRAISE PRAISE PRAISE

I also suggest that you don't have your boys stand up yet.
Atleast not till they have this all down.
Plus it helps for #2
I have some tips for #2 as well...if you have any questions about that just ask :)

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween Night

Here are all of our pictures from Halloween
They had a blast
I had alot more in mind
but time got away from us!

Me (cheerleader) and Harper (skeleton)

Linford (skeleton)

Linford and Billy
(on our way to go trick-or-treating)
Linford and Tayden (batman/wolverine)

Tayden and Linny
Linny Binny

We had Aiden, Hewitts best buddy, come with us again this year
They had so much fun together.
They both got so many compliments
Aiden (wolverine) Hewitt (Buzz Lightyear)

Linford, Hewitt, Aiden, Tayden and Natalia

Aiden and Hewitt

Daddy and Harper
Harper was such a trooper, like always


Happy Halloween

(Push Pause on my Music)



Here is Hewitt singing
"The Skeleton Bop"


(you can't hear too well cause he was excited so here are the words)
"Skeleton bones rattle and shake
legs and arms quiver and quake
elbows and hips swing side to side
backbone bends, ribs on each side
put them together
alright
with a skull on the top
that's the skeleton
doing the skeleton BOP!"




Friday, October 30, 2009

Just a preview

Just a little preview of our Halloween Costumes before our fun-filled evening

Halloween
I love halloween.
I am not one of those who loves to dress up...
I don't decorate all "halloweeny"
-BUT-
I LOVE dressing my kids up and taking them out "Trick or Treating"
It is getting more fun each year as they try and choose what they want to be....

I am so excited to take them out tomorrow!!!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Old Friends
My good friend Mary Stevens Dowell came into town this weekend. So we decided to have a little get together....We miss Mary so much. She is such a fun girl and such an amazing friend.
Instead of going out to eat we ordered take out and came to my house to chill and talk.
We LAUGHED alot and talked about old times. I can't believe we are all grown up! It seems like yesterday we were in 6th grade.
I wish she lived here!

Mary, Lisa, Me and Brittany

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Hewitt's Pre-school Class
Hewitt has the BEST teacher and such a fun class.
I think all these kids are pretty dang cute,
but I can't help but think my Hewy is the cutest.

We are holding Hewitt back since he is an August baby.
He will have one more year at this pre-school, which will be 3 years at this place!
He loves it here.
He is just so SMART.
He is the YOUNGEST in the class and I keep hearing that he is one of the SMARTEST!
I am so proud of this cute little dude.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Family Pictures

Okay Here are some family Pictures that we had taken at our house.
There are a ton posted here....
I think we took like 400 so this is really good that I only posted this many....


















What do you think?
I can't decide....


Saturday, October 17, 2009

Yep that's right!
He is standing on his own....
I can't believe he is growing so fast.
He crawled at 6 months,
He is standing up at 7 months....
Good job Buddy!
We LOVE you!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Playing Outside
Oh I am going to miss playing outside.
Yes the Fall colors are pretty
but I hate the cold and I hate being cooped up all winter long.
You can only play in the snow for so long with little ones.
I LOVE warm weather,
swimming, picnics, unrolled windows, birds chirping, popsicles....
not having these just makes me want to cry!


Linford, Hewitt and their Best Buddy Aiden

Exploring...

Harper LOVES being outside.

He loved this dandelion


Harper is FULL on Crawling NOW! Yay!
People always say they don't want their child to crawl or walk
cause they'll be in to everything.....
I am the oppisite.
I LOVE this stage. I think its so fun.
I am glad he can get things by himself.
He also just started pulling himself up.
He stands up all the time.
His falls are still quite dramatic but he doesn't ever cry.
He is so cute, we just love him.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

This is WHY....

This is why.... I love being a mom.
This is why.... I want more kids.
This is why.....I don't mind doing MOUNDS of laundry.
This is why.....I don't mind waking up SO EARLY.
This is why.....each day is worth living.
THESE little boys make it ALL worth it and more.
How could you resist them???










Now I just need a little girl to add to the mix!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Harper is Crawling...kind of

Harper is getting around!
I don't know if we can quite call it "crawling" yet, but its pretty darn close!!!!!
Pretty good for 6 months.


This one isn't as good as the first, but he is just so dang cute.



He doesn't really crawl in this one
but I just love him so I put it up...

Our Famiily

Our Famiily

Hewitt

Hewitt
Hewitt is our SMART litte 4 year old. He listens and does everything I tell him to. He is the BEST big brother and my big helper too.

Linny Binny

Linny Binny
This little dude keeps us laughing all the time. He just barely turned 2 and He is so sweet and getting so big.

Harper

Harper
Harper is 7 months old. Easiest baby yet and crawls everywhere and stands up on his own too!

Bossy

Bossy
Our BIG Wonderful Doggy. He will be turning 4 in October! We love ya Buddy!

McBride Family

McBride Family
20 grandchildren and 1 on the way! 14 boys and 7 girls.

Brandon and I with Harper at 4 months

Brandon and I with Harper at 4 months

Linford Family

Linford Family
7 grandchildren, soon to be 8! 3 girls and 5 boys